Agreed, total waste. The reason they're pushing it so hard is that its pure profit. The reason your LS400 held up so well is thats how Lexuses are.
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If they wont let up say "Hey, you can quit with the Simonizing or you're going to loose this sale" they'll shut up immediately.
I once walked out on a computer purchase because they wouldn't quit about the warranty. All these add ons are wastes of money. I had it on a dolly right next to the checkout and the guy had been working on me for 15 minutes. I told him "If you want to sell this computer you really need to drop the warrany pushing" he actually got really nasty, so I just took my hands off the cart and said "You can explain to your manager why this needs to be restocked" and walked out.
No reason to deal with people like that. Plenty other people to sell you stuff that will do it on your terms.